Ask Ethical Elle
The advice column that answers the questions you would ask your friend if they could forget you ever asked.
Welcome to Ask Ethical Elle, where you can ask me anything – nothing’s off the table. Relationships, sex, life in general…bring those questions!
No judgment will ever be placed, and no question is ever
too unique.
I will utilize my very wide pool of People Who Know Things, and together we’ll come up with answers to those tricky, sticky, or ethically tangly questions you’ve always had but didn’t know who to ask, besides Google, and they track that shit.

Ask Ethical Elle #3
Smelly fetishes, slow libido, chronic conditions, and a not-gay dad

Ask Ethical Elle #2
The chronic edition: This one’s about pain, the body, and boundaries.

Ask Ethical Elle #1
A new relationship, an alcoholic best friend, and what’s this about BDSM?
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Remember, you don’t know what you don’t know.
Don’t be embarrassed or ashamed to ask any question, while we may not be able to answer or print them all, we recognize they’re all meaningful.
Don’t be shy to ask questions about your body and its functions. Remember, none of us were given a handbook to becoming a successful sexual being. Certainly not in my Health class, anyway. We had to discover what we liked as individuals and that takes trial and error sometimes.
The same is true for relationships, life in general, or political questions. Until you ask, you won’t get answers.